Importance of Sex in a Relationship
The truth about “sex” is that it can make or break a relationship! Is sex that important? The answer is no, but yes sex has some merit when it comes to strengthening a relationship.
An intimate exercise for couples, sex tests compatibility, character, love and compassion. It either draws couples closer or sets them adrift. The more the society has opened up avenues of discussing sexual habits and indulgences; it has come to the purview that one of the most common grounds for divorce between married couples has been physical incompatibility.
Earlier no one would be willing to talk about sex in an open public forum. Slowly, however things have changed, the duress of suffering unhappy relationships and even marriages has given way to deliberation on the importance of sex and how it moulds relationships and defines intimacy.
The Natural Biology of Things
Procreation suggests that the importance of sex is undeniable as it ensures the survival of species. In simple terms, sex is a necessity and not a choice. The choice however lies in the practice of the act – there are people who choose a single partner for a lifetime, there are those who have multiple partners. To understand the nature and power of the biology of things it is important to come to understand and accept ones’ core sexual orientation. Identifying the same can open the door of understanding relationships better.
Sex for Pleasure
Non-monogamous people see the act of sex as an act of mere pleasure. They disassociate themselves from the feeling of love and commitment whenever they are indulging in hook-ups, fling, swinging or casual sex. It is a kind of sport. It helps them explore their sexual preferences in consensus with people of similar inclinations. So, there is little divide in opinion, less conflict and great enjoyment.
Sex for Security
For some people, sex is all but an expression of feelings for the one they love. It not only suggests a healthy relationship but brings in scope for more bonding and greater companionship. It provides a deep sense of commitment and helps love grow. The physical intimacy validates emotional responses and leads to a happy mental space for a couple.
Sex as an effective tool for communication between couples
When two people feel passionately, they need to find an effective communication tool to express their love and longing. So, if you are still shy and have inhibitions about talking to your partner regarding what excites you sexually, maybe it’s time to address this issue from the point of view of practical biological conditioning than some unfathomable moral code that restrains a free conversation.
Sex is a natural requirement, don’t be inhibited!
Gone are the days when there was no option but to crib and suffer relationship problems that rose out of unhealthy sexual practices; or remain silent in an unsatisfying relationship due to social pressures. Today there are relationship counsellors, doctors and therapists who can help solve such problems. An open line of communication and an active sex life with your partner can nourish and nurture happy and life-long relationships!
