Loving Yourself can Transform

Getting up  everyday to the feeling of drudgery and mental pain. My life was taking no considerable turning and direction.

I was brave enough but this phase was testing one. Mother of two with an abandoned career, an aloof husband and full of self doubts was all I had to show on my resume for now. I was left with no patience for things like, “You are an educated woman”- “ Only you can do it” and likewise.

The transformational seminar I attended a few days ago, though changed me. I was administered “ Love Yourself” dose – and that has worked for me. I am not becoming self-absorbed or self centric.I am still the same but am holding myself in higher esteem and better frame of mind.

This transformational phase has proven itself to be reflective and strengthening.

I need to do things I enjoy doing :

I must pursue my in-built gifts and talents and do what I enjoy the most.

I must give credit to my strengths & grit

: I was born with enough surviving skill, if I de-prioritise my focus on the mundane.

I must recognize my worth:

I was seeing myself as how others  perceived me and had none set opinion of self resulting in loss of self esteem.

I stopped criticizing myself :

Things going off track – was not just altogether my fault . I could not forever go coping up with self blame.  

I was good enough feeling

brought me face to face with a surge in confidence. I am alive and I’ll smile approach to life. More I impressed  this positive trait on myself, the more I felt ready for flight in open skies.

I stopped delaying my decisions :

More you think is more you’ll end up thinking. I calculated what could be worse, if this was n’t worst.So, I left my perfect thinking behind for a while.Pitched in with determination and energetically.

I said “No” to any more Pressures :

Nobody could take me for granted  I loved my family no end but a line of consideration drawn sounded necessary. I had to have other hobbies, vocation too.

The more I understood myself – stronger I emerged. I went back to take control of my life, and career. It didn’t happen overnight. I learnt the art of life and understood –that self realization was self awakening actually